Before a Reading - Colibrì Tarot

Before a reading please follow some suggestions below:

Be certain to read through my Page on My Ethics
Word Your Questions Carefully keeping the following in mind:
Try starting questions with:
- Can you give me insight into…
- What do I need to understand about…
- What is the meaning of…
- What is the lesson or purpose of…
- What are the circumstances underlying…
- How can I improve my chances of…
- How might I…
  - Accept Responsibility
    - ie. Should I put my father in a nursing home, or take care of him in my house. (You’re putting all the responsibility on the cards)
    - A better way to ask is “What do I need to know to decide on the best living arrangements for my father?”
  - Keep Your Options Open
    - Stay away from Yes/No questions
    - Avoid “Should” questions, “Should I let my daughter live at home?”
    - Don’t question about time. “When will George ask me to marry him?”
      - Instead of “How might I encourage my mother-in-law to move out?”
      - Try “What do I need to know to get along better with my mother-in-law?”
  - Find the Best Level of Detail:
    - Don’t be too vague but don’t be too detailed.
      - How can I improve my work situation? (Too vague)
      - How can I reorganize my desk so that Tom can find my files? (Too detailed)
      - How can I improve the flow of work between Tom and me? (Perfect)
  - Stay Neutral
    - Instead of: “Why am I the only one doing chores?” Try “How can I foster a spirit of cooperation concerning the chores?” Better
    - Instead of: “How can I make people listen when I’m talking?” Try: “What is going on when I try to communicate but feel others aren’t listening?”
  - Be Positive
    - Instead of: “How come I can never get my research published?” Try: “How can I find the ideal forum in which to publish my research?”
    - Instead of: “Why can’t I overcome my fear of public speaking?” Try: “How can I improve my ability to speak to groups effectively?”
  - Focus on yourself
    - Instead of: “Am I going to get this new job?” Try: What can I do to be my best for this new job?
Meditate while forming the question.
Write your question down and say it out loud to give it energy.
Send your energy to me. Don’t worry, the Universe knows where to find me!
Relax and let go. Do not fret while awaiting your reading. Put it from your mind